Dyan Kay

Helping parents build strong relationships with their children through everyday moments of connection, play, and understanding.

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Parenting was never meant to be done alone.

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Whether you're expecting your first baby, navigating toddlerhood, or simply trying to understand your child a little better, small moments of connection can make a big difference.

My goal is to help parents build strong relationships with their children through practical strategies, meaningful interactions, and everyday moments that matter.

Growing Together

A relationship-based parenting series that helps caregivers learn to see, understand, and respond to their children as they grow.

From pregnancy through early childhood, Growing Together focuses on the relationships that help children feel safe, connected, understood, and confident.

A father and his baby girl sharing a joyful moment. The father is leaning towards the girl, holding her hands, both are smiling and looking at each other, with a decorated room in the background.

Playing Away

Toddler and Preschool

Play-based activities that support learning, development, communication, and connection.

Designed for real families who want simple ways to engage, connect, and grow together through play.

A young boy and a woman, likely his mother, are inside a welcoming kindergarten classroom, smiling and showing purple heart stickers on their fists. The boy is wearing a purple backpack and khaki pants, and the woman is dressed casually with a matching purple bag. Outside, children are playing in a sunny playground. The classroom entrance is decorated with signs that read 'You Are Loved,' 'You've Got This!' and 'Welcome Little Learners!' A cute stuffed teddy bear on a purple blanket, a chalkboard sign, and flowers decorate the scene. The mat on the floor says, 'Goodbyes Are Hard. Love Stays.'

Meet Dyan

Hi, I'm Dyan.

I'm a parent educator, mother of six, former foster parent, and creator of Growing Together and Playing Away.

For more than 27 years, I've supported children and families through parent education, home visiting, and relationship-based approaches that help families thrive.

I believe some of the most important moments happen in everyday life.

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Resources for Parents

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